Networking 30,000 feet in the air
February 4, 2008
“This is the final boarding call for WestJet flight 699 with service to Toronto.”
With ID and boarding card in hand I make it to the gate just in time and jog my way down the long walk-way to the aircraft. Most passengers are already seated, but I manage to find one small space in the overhead bin for my rather large winter coat.
Seat 2E. (I always make sure that I get a seat as close to the front as I can. I say it’s because of the noise, but really it’s to be as close to the captain as possible. That way, if there’s trouble, I’ll be one of the first to be warned – as if there is something I would be able to do.) I’m usually a window kinda gal, but the last window seat was in row 18. I decide that the flight from Halifax is only two hours so I can bare the middle. There is already a 30-something, business-looking woman sitting down. I give a closed-mouth smile and buckle up.
As well as window seats on planes there is also the “window of opportunity” moment in which you have to decide whether or not you’re going to start a conversation with your flying buddy. This window usually only exists from the time you sit down to the time of take-off. Otherwise, you’ve lost it and you better hope you remembered a good book or have money for headphones. The decision on whether or not you are going to talk depends on the mood you’re in and upon the chance your willing to risk talking to someone you wish you hadn’t started talking to.
This morning, I decided why not.
“So, heading home?”
“Yep. Just getting back from business. You?”
“Me too. Well, not from business, but heading home.”
After you break the initial, “we’ve both agreed to talk” stage, the conversation has the ability to go anywhere. I heard about her business, clients, trips, weddings, fiancee’s children, travelling, getting mugged – you can learn a lot about someone in two hours. Most significantly, I networked. The woman owns her own company that develops health care systems in other countries based on Canada’s system. Listening to her was fascinating. Perhaps it was the journalist in me, but I couldn’t stop asking questions. She then asked about my interests and future ambitions. I told her about school and career options, but was honest in that I was eager to practice in various areas of PR.
“We’re starting our decent into Toronto. Please ensure that all seats are upright and all luggage is stored away.”
I told her how gracious she was to answer my questions and hoped that I wasn’t too forward. She smiled and said not to worry and handed me her business card. “Give me a call once you’re done with school.”
I’ve thought about our discussion since we parted. The conversation we had would have been better than any interview or resume I could have sent her. I thought about the power of networking and how it can happen at any time – especially when you least expect it. It goes to show that on top of the CPRS or IABC events we attend, networking is a full-time part of the PR world. So talk away and hopefully you’ll get lucky!
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conniepappas | February 6, 2008 at 5:23 am
I couldn’t agree more! You never know who you will meet and where, and why not take a chance and communicate. Heck, even when you don’t plan on talking to someone, the opportunity still presents itself.
I’m sure I’ve told you how I made my first contact in the PR world – I was on the subway and went to grab my gloves from my jacket. Not only did my gloves fly out of my pocket, but a five dollar bill smacked the lady beside me in the face. After a thousand apologies and nervous laughter, we got to talking and she happened to be the director of communications in the not-for-profit sector. She was so pleasant and told me that if I ever needed anything that I could contact her!
I love the random networking so much more than networking at events and PR-related functions as it seems less forced and more relaxed. Sometimes at PR-related events, I really want to make contacts, but then think – what in god’s name can I talk to this person about!
I’m sure we will all hone our networking skills and end up with an ultimate rolodex, but in the beginning, it is still shaky ground!
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staffeen thompson | February 6, 2008 at 10:59 pm
This is exactly the type of networking that makes me smile.
Having that charisma, and being able to strike up a conversation anywhere, anytime, is so vital… And being prepared is also another component. Good stuff!
I’ve met people in the most peculiar of locations – the elevator (to illustrate that saying), the airport, the hair salon, even eating sushi in a restaurant (a woman was eavesdropping into my coversation and interjected). It can really happen anywhere!
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Dean Calvert | February 11, 2008 at 2:05 am
Good info. and read. Will be back soon to read more of your information.
Thanks,
Dean
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Christine Smith | February 21, 2008 at 9:18 pm
What an engaging post! Loved it.
What you haven’t said about your personality and this wonderful encounter: 1) you were open to the possibilities of this conversation; 2) you took a risk; 3) you were gracious and well-mannered and, most importantly, you likely showed genuine interest in what she had to say. Your seat mate sensed your obvious interest and lack of “it’s all about me” focus. Networking 101. It works.